Conscious Dating

Where do you see yourself in one year? What goal or goals do you hope to meet? Do your best to answer this one, even if your vision is fuzzy, including your most important values. In one year - I had a dream that this year had already passed - that the feeling of one month had actually been an entire year. I say that to say...a year is very short. I'm not sure where I want to be in a year. I want to feel more deeply in my body. I want to be completely out of financial debt.  How do you envision your life in five, ten, and twenty years? If you don’t yet know, write about why you don’t yet know or describe your experience of not-knowing. I think it's too early in the morning for me to have these visions now. Or, more rightly, it's too early in my current process to know where I see myself. I started a journey 3 years ago. The last journey I took like this took 4 years to really have a direction in mind, and ten years to complete. I feel patient and don't want to ass...

I would like to honor I was in a fairly negative place when I wrote some of my last journal entries. They do not encompass my whole experience. But I'm going to let them stand for what they are and the moment I wrote them. In what spirit do you typically enter a date? I don't date, so I don't have an answer to this question. How has that spirit served you in the past, and was it loving toward yourself? Just having to respond to that question above and thinking about how I don't date and how that angers me brings up more anger. I feel some tightness in my face and in my solar plexus. Now some emotion is coming up from under that. I want to say Fuck You for asking me in what spirit I enter a date. I'm sure I could respond to the nature of the question if I wanted to, but this rage and desire to lash out is much more interesting. There are thoughts that go along with that too, like "why not me? why am I not worth dating? why don't people ask...